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We’ve Been Here Before


It’s hard to remember stuff. We read, we study, we learn. Then, over time, we forget. We have to relearn a lot of information. It’s a lifetime learning sort of situation.

As a couple, both partners have to share a love of exploration, growth, and evolution. As we grow we grow together. As we build our trust web and our loving habits, we can begin to aim for higher latitudes.

You and I belong in the stars. We deserve to be loved. I love you, here reading this, but I know that’s not enough. Creative success would not fill my desire. Perhaps a woman won’t either. Okay. The right woman feels calm. Expressive and expansive. She’s got to have a passion project of some sort. It doesn’t matter if our projects are even related. What matters is the consideration of your partner in all aspects of your life. Do I want to do this if it’s upsetting to my partner?

I want to think of lovely things to my partner. I want to nurture and hold them. When they struggle, I want to be the steady and strong one, at least for the moment. There can be a temporary imbalance. That’s fine. Humans move at different speeds of light. Some of us vibrate higher than others. It’s important for the quick ones to learn how to resync with others.

We struggle sometimes. Things that can slow us down. Cats. Fires. Walking in the woods. Listening to Tangerine Dream. Tai Chi. By slowing down we can experience life more like a normie. We can related better when we’re not interrupting, even for a “yes.” Listen quietly. Attentively. That’s what I’m working on.

 

glitching image a, john oakley mcelhenney

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